Wednesday, January 3, 2018

A Fond Farewell

Dear Friends,

I wanted to announce that I am retiring from this blog site. However, I will be leaving it up because there is great reading material to pour through here as well as finding links to our other websites. I will be continuing my posting on my doll photography page.

As you have probably noticed with so much going on politically speaking there is really not much room to write about much else right now. It has been quite a depressing year with Trump and the GOP dragging the entire country down. There is really not much escape from it but I will try and do that with my photography.

Please follow me at the link above or find me through Pinterest, Twitter, or elsewhere. You can also find my partner Alannah through her links on the side of this page. Thanks to our readers. Wishing you the best.


Tuesday, November 21, 2017

Improvisation on an Anti-Republican Theme

The holidays have arrived. But who is even paying attention this year?

Hardly any Trick or Treater's this past Halloween. With America in turmoil with the Trump regime and going downhill at an incredible pace. Thanksgiving is already upon us but who even feels like celebrating anymore?

I have felt a writer's block for quite some time now. But I don't think that many people are reading anyway. The focus for many Americans has been on one thing. Keeping track of what is happening to our country. The stunts, deflectors, and propaganda being pulled by the religious right.

To say I am disgusted by the news these days is an understatement. I say by the news, not at the news. The religious that defend sexual assault, the misogynists, the bigots, the anti-science jerks, those who are trying to eliminate abortion, and the worst of all those who defend this lot. The 'deplorables' own up to their name given to them.

I suppose this is our Unhappy Thanksgiving courtesy of the fuckwitted Republicans and btw your "Jesus" isn't too pleased with you neither. Just one more thing. You're going to H.E. double toothpicks. Cause SATAN!!!! AND....he's coming to take you away! HA hA!!

Sunday, October 15, 2017

Why Do Smart People Do Foolish Things?

By Heather A. Butler

Intelligence is not the same as critical thinking and the difference matters

"Critical thinking is a collection of cognitive skills that allow us to think rationally in a goal-orientated fashion, and a disposition to use those skills when appropriate. Critical thinkers are amiable skeptics. They are flexible thinkers who require evidence to support their beliefs and recognize fallacious attempts to persuade them. Critical thinking means overcoming all sorts of cognitive biases (e.g., hindsight bias, confirmation bias, etc.)."

Continue reading this article from Scientific American.

Monday, October 9, 2017

Why Facts Don't Convince People and What You Can Do About It

Here are some reasons that facts don't convince people. (via Social Good Now) Please feel free to comment about the success or failure of your own strategy in debate sessions. Do you think this video is helpful or flawed in any way?

Thanks for watching.

Sunday, September 24, 2017

What To Say and Not To Say

Hello fellow atheists and to my friends out there. Thanks for reading along. We've had some great articles over the years here and if you're new you might want to read some from our history's archive as well when you get the opportunity.

Today's article is spawned by a post in a group I am in. What is the best thing to say to someone who has just told you they have a terrible illness? Well my friends, this is something that will eventually happen to us all. Whether we are going through it ourselves or are on the receiving end of hearing the news from someone.

I've touched on this topic a little bit before in an article about medical staff saying they will pray for me which actually makes me upset when someone says that. I find such interactions not necessarily rude, but disrespectful of my non-belief. Especially when it's an answered question on my medical chart. It's also not the best idea to assume that everyone believes as you might.

Caring for a person is about taking into consideration how they perceive the world. This is not about you and what you believe. It's about empathy for other people. 

Whenever someone says they will pray for me with the full knowledge that I am an atheist I think they are praying for themselves instead that they will not have to suffer such an illness and it tells me they do not care about my perspective at all. It leaves me feeling more wounded than anything. 

What are thoughtful and kind words to say to someone who is dealing with any medical issues someone might be facing? 

When someone tells you something personal about their life such as this, they are looking for a little comfort and likely feeling alone, scared, or a myriad of emotions about their diagnosis. 

Know that often people will not ask for help because it makes them feel weak and vulnerable. Also their closest family members will need support, too. Please don't forget them! 

Here are some things you could say.

“I’m not sure what to say, but I want you to know I care.”
“I’m sorry to hear that you are going through this.”
“How are you doing?”
“If you would like to talk about it, I’m here.”
“Please let me know how I can help.”
“I’ll keep you in my thoughts.”

Here are some things you could do.

Perhaps you can help run errands for them, make them a meal, cut their lawn, get their mail, walk their pet, take them to an appointment, get them groceries, or sending a card, just as some added ideas. Above all, just be a listening ear if they need and don't be the person that distances themselves from someone going through a very rough situation. Listen to what their particular needs are. Which also includes respecting their privacy as well. 

If you have more ideas I would love to hear them in the comments area and thanks to the poster who brought this up in my group to discuss. 

Friday, September 22, 2017

Practicing Good Communications

Recently I had a good experience with someone who actually trolled one of my pages and through communications with him he accepted responsibility for what he had done and also admitted that he didn't know what the truth was in relation to the topic at hand. I have to say this doesn't happen very often online or in real life. Where someone admits their faux pas. So I really respected that he fessed up about it. We actually started to talk and not only did it end well. We've kept in touch now n' then.

With that never know who you might have an impact on when you're communicating with someone. Perhaps we should look at some effective ways of communicating with others. I, for one, would appreciate more thought out conversations rather than have reactionary ones with people who are just out to 'stir the pot'.

You might find these helpful to you in your own conversations online with individuals and remember they may not be on the same level as you. Some are simply going to act out in ways that will get on your nerves. But this is more about how you respond. So let's take a look.

Our instincts generally lead us to defend our position but we should pause before responding. The reason we do this is to let what they are saying process and it gives you time to think about or convey what you would like to say.

Speak in a manner that conveys openness, honesty, and trust. Chances are your communications will go much better if this can be established early on.

If you want your ideas to be heard consider adapting your ideas to others and getting to know them.

Are you staying in the moment and giving your conversation focus? It's easy for a conversation to go downhill when one is easily distracted or not paying attention and listening to the other person.

Are you listening to understand? Or are you listening to respond? We're often quick to relay our opinions without making an effort to understand what others are saying.

It can be difficult to do but learn to practice patience and an open mind. Some things just take time and there are usually ways to communicate if you spend a little time at it.

Try asking for feedback. If you are in communications with someone on a regular basis a few suggestions could set you right on track and developing better understandings with them. If you are someone who doesn't take criticisms well. Remember that they are suggestions to benefit you both.

Perhaps you have another tip you would love to add that has worked for you. Please feel free to leave it in the comments below. Hope this is helps and have a great day!

Tuesday, August 29, 2017

Believe In Yourself: You Are Here In The Now

I think the saddest thing to see online right about now are all the people asking for prayers from their god during this Texas flood. When "God" has never been there for the burning of so-called witches, the holocaust, the previous floods, thousands of diseases, too many wars, and every other terrible thing that has happened to humans and animals since the dawn of time.

You see yourself as a good and decent human and almost every single day something is happening to one of you out there and that's a whole lot of people.  Have believers ever considered that their god isn't as good as they were led to believe? Why should you trust him? What has he done to earn your trust? Has he ever visited you in person? Does he tell you in person that he loves you? Has he even said hello? Or are you just blindly following the herd and their beliefs? Or carrying on a tradition? Being told what to believe by pastors, churches, your parents, or even your president.

One's god can only exist in the minds of the believers. Humans created "God". There is no heaven or hell. Just us. I will not pray for you. Praying does nothing for anyone. But I will help you. I will help you accept reality to move forward. To gain strength from yourself, and to not rely on imaginations and be in denial. To see things as they are and not the way you wish them to be. To live in the present. 

Saturday, August 26, 2017

Practicing Intoku

Today I experienced a great mindfulness meditation by Tamara Levitt called Intoku, which is Japanese for:

Good done in secret, specifically the act of doing good secretly, for its own sake. It means to act without seeking attention and praise, to act without any hope of reward. This is what Intoku is about. 

Immediately I began thinking of the lady I see in town that is always picking up trash daily from the sidewalks and streets every morning to keep the town looking clean and beautiful. She has done this on her own for many years, without pay or recognition.

I would like to encourage you to consider Intoku for yourself and how you and others may benefit from a simple act such as this. While you are pondering this what lesson might you be learning? How do we liberate ourselves?

When we stop looking to others for validation and the acts of kindness become our reward. Knowing that we made things a little better in our world, and for others. 

Saturday, August 19, 2017

I'm a Christian Can You Shut the Fuck Up

The following is a comment I received on a Richard Dawkins/Ricky Gervais image/video featuring a conversation between them as shown above about religion. Madie refused to reply back on the thread itself when asked how this was forcing a lack of belief on her and also as to why she was being so rude on an atheist board. 

I wondered how this could possibly be when it most certainly seems the other way around. I will just use a few examples and no doubt you will pick up on it quite quickly.

Endorsement of a deity on all US currency. Tell me again how atheism is being forced on you? 

Jesus jewelry at just about every store on the planet. Oh yeah, and how about this?

Christian bumper stickers aka propaganda for Jesus everywhere. Mm and what else? 

Bibles, bibles everywhere!! At the stores, in dr's offices, even motel rooms. Remind me again who is forcing their religious views?

Then there is this big one. Churches and religious organizations are generally exempt from income tax and receive other favorable treatment under the tax law. Churches are not only everywhere but there are about twelve in my little town. How many atheist brick n' mortar buildings reside in yours? Probably zero. 

I think even many Christians would get the point. This is what religious privilege is. When atheists are told to "shut the fuck up" it's not only rude, uninvited, but being a bully. (Like many from the Trump camp are.) 

Friday, August 11, 2017

The Cult of Trump

The term cult usually refers to a social group defined by its religious, spiritual, or philosophical beliefs, or its common interest in a particular personality, object, or goal.

There is a sickness permeating the country and this describes it rather well when it comes to the conservatives and many so-called religious in our society. It's become a mental sickness where people have elevated a president to godly status and their belief in lies over truth. It's much deeper than can be described here. But generally it affects those with lower IQ's and those who believe in the supernatural. 

I watch my local news and commercials are suddenly filled with preachers and the gospel. The radio stations becoming more religious oriented as well. Propaganda is everywhere! My local fair is full of Gadsden, Trump, and Make America Great again flags. I suddenly feel as if I am in an episode of Invasion of the Body Snatchers. 

You're not making America great again

I am certainly not alone in what I am experiencing. Even some pastors have noticed their members becoming less Christian and subscribing to Republican Jesus more than ever before by the likes of what is termed the Cult of Trump. 

While this post may seem slightly jokey. Look around and tell me, am I right? Or do you see it happening all around you, too? Or is this slightly satire? It's up to the reader to investigate the evidence and facts to discover the truth. 

Monday, July 31, 2017

Heart and Brain: Conspiracy

Something to make you smile for today.
Check out his great books on Amazon. 

Spiritual, But Not Religious?

Recently I posted the article Why Aren't More Women Openly Skeptical of Faith?  While it did not bring any responses on my facebook page. It did on someone who shared the article on theirs. Which brings me to the topic of atheism and spirituality today.

Nothing brings more condemnation than the words "spiritual" and "spirituality" for many atheists. But the question is why? The late Christopher Hitchens was not opposed to it and neither is Sam Harris in which he explained his own reasoning through his article here. The idea that an atheist cannot be spiritual is somewhat robotic style thinking.

While traditionally spirituality refers to a religious process of re-formation, its meaning has evolved and expanded over time. There is no widely agreed definition of it. However, spirituality has often been associated with the interior life of the individual.

I want to address some points here. One is that there are women who are openly skeptical about faith. But for the most part our media remains focused on a select group who just happen to be men. You can certainly find female skeptics and atheists via Twitter speaking passionately on a daily basis with other folks. (Check out SkepticNikki, GodlessMom, or author GretaChristina.)

My second point I want to make is for those who are critical and harsh of women who claim they are "spiritual, but not religious". There is a portion of our atheist community that gets up in arms over this and equates it to being "new agey". Certainly there will be some from that camp. But there is a segment that chooses not to define themselves with labels and one can certainly make the case for various sides on this. For some labels are empowering, while for others not so much.

My dear friends there are many ways one can be spiritual, but not religious. Making love with your partner could be defined as a spiritual experience. One that I think many could relate with. Just as much as art, music, meditation, and dance are.

In discussions I think we have to be more thoughtful and open to try and find middle ground with fellow human beings who may be on a similar (dare I say) path as our own or at a different stage of the journey as to not turn them completely away from it and discovering a part of themselves that make them feel good about who they are.
Thanks and as always feel free to share your comments.

Thursday, July 6, 2017

Creating Sickness Recovering from Religion

"One of the things I most despise about religious ideologies is the way they implant ideas in the minds of folks that can plague their imagination — like the idea of being judged by a ‘supreme’ being. This video is dedicated to those recovering from religion."

For those affected, try this site:

Video by TheraminTrees

Thursday, June 15, 2017

The Path on Hulu

Recently I have been watching The Path on Hulu and just completed the first season and am looking forward to the second. Mostly due to my interest in cults, albeit this is fictional, it does lay groundwork and provides some insight into how cults operate and the types of tactics they use. It starts off slow and gains momentum as the story into their cult unfolds and you begin to see each of the character's personalities and how they come to be a part of  what they call a movement.

The Path stars Aaron Paul, Michelle Monaghan, and Hugh Dancy. (You may remember Dancy as Will Graham in NBC's Hannibal.)  

Without giving away too much of the plot....

"Meyerism is a fictional movement in the series founded by the character Dr. Stephen Meyer who was said to have literally climbed a ladder of burning light to receive the message of universal truth. Meyer gave to his followers the instructions for their spiritual development, written in the first book of Meyerism, The Ladder." 

Would love to hear what you think of the series and possibly get a discussion going on it. Hulu has/had a 30 day trial period which I took advantage of and am finding it well worth it to buy into a few more months of programs to watch. I picked the limited commercial version which was cheaper and have watched a few other series to boot. 


Sunday, June 11, 2017

The Most Unpleasant Character Webpage

On June 9th, 2017 the Freedom From Religion Foundation announced a new webpage which is a searchable database of Old Testament verses proving that God is the most unpleasant character.

It was inspired by biologist Richard Dawkins' point in a book he wrote called, "The God Delusion".

His quote prompted much criticism. But as we know most people never really read their bibles, dismiss the Old Testament, or cherry pick from it to suit themselves, or to be hateful to others.

Dawkins asked former minister Dan Barker to gather a list of biblical references for each hostile description. Thus Barker’s book, “GOD: The Most Unpleasant Character in All Fiction" was born.

The “Unpleasant Companion,” is a site designed to easily search through and share bible verses as evidence used to characterize God.

"The site includes biblical passages revealing that God is also pyromaniacal, angry, merciless, curse-hurling, vaccicidal, aborticidal, cannibalistic, and a slavemonger."

The quotes can be shared to the social media sites facebook and twitter. I would love to see them add a link for Pinterest as well. 


Sunday, June 4, 2017

The Calm App

Greetings my friends!

I found something that is a bit different from what I normally post and wanted to introduce you to a great app and website that I found. You can find it through the Apple store (iphone section, but you can easily download it on ipad as well) and it's called which is also their website link and as well via Google Play for Android. Finally something worthy to spend my iTunes gift card on.

What prompted me to check it out was that I saw they had breathing, meditation, and sleep stories. It's a free app but being it's an actual program they have monthly, yearly, and for life subscriptions that start at 12.99US a month. It's wonderful with lovely soothing sounds and it feels really good to relax to. I think we can all use a bit of that in our life if we don't have a spa nearby.

Meditation helps to lower stress, increase concentration, and increase happiness. I think there are a lot of us out there right now that could use a break from the political crap going on. There are some scientific articles and studies that explain its benefits in more detail. But you can do the homework if you like on it. You know I did, already. Otherwise, I wouldn't be posting about it here. Check it out. You might like what it has to offer and that's all for today folks.


Thursday, June 1, 2017

Amanda Knox Today

"You probably know Amanda Knox as the woman imprisoned for years in Italy for murder, for which she was exonerated by the Italian Supreme Court. Today, she is a journalist and activist for the wrongfully convicted, and she recently wrote a major report for VICE in which she exposes the use of religion in prisons as the only available path to rehabilitation, which manipulates inmates into indoctrination."

Well written, I might add.

Read her article: 

Monday, May 22, 2017

Stephen Fry Explains Why People Believe Number 45

Why do people believe Trump? And why is he so confident, even when demonstrably wrong? In a clip that Pindex put together, voiced by Stephen Fry. It’s all to do with the Dunning-Kruger effect, the tendency for the least mentally proficient people to often overestimate their own abilities. Fry also explains how Salience Bias and the power of repetition help shape views more than facts.

“The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance,” Fry says in the clip. “It is the illusion of knowledge."

Tuesday, May 16, 2017

Great News! Fewer Americans Believe the Bible is True

"Fewer than one in four Americans ― just 24 percent ― believe the Bible is “the actual word of God, and is to be taken literally, word for word,” according to a new survey by Gallup.

Amid the stories of love and redemption in the Bible, there are a number of passages condoning rape, murder, and the procuring of slaves. There are intricate rules about dress and diet, prohibitions to certain professions and quite a few discussed practices that would make a modern person blush.

But Gallup found that just about a quarter of the American populous believe God literally decreed that women shouldn’t be allowed to ever teach or have any authority over men and that people who worship other gods should be put to death."

You can read the full story via this link from Huffington Post: Religion

It has already begun. People are coming to their senses that the bible is terribly flawed and was written by men. Take it one step further. Chalk it all up to mythology and a part of history when men of power were trying to control the masses. It's all made up and has always been. Man has created countless gods and goddesses though the centuries to explain things through story telling. Story telling was a great part of bringing children and adults alike together. 


Saturday, May 13, 2017

Dear Millennials This One's For You

I want you to know that I find your generation to be the most encouraging for the future of our world. You will accomplish far more, than even mine. I am encouraged to learn that nearly sixty percent of you are leaving religion behind. That you aren't going to waste your precious time going to Church to be controlled by the masses and you understand that religions are a huge problem to our world. That politicians use it for political gains and power. That deities of both the past and present are merely the imagination of man as a way of explaining things they did not know. That both Science and Research are leading the way and so will you. You will strive to be smarter than the ole timers who watch Fox News. You will fact check and not be swayed by the conspiracy theorists. I have hope for your generation that you will do so much more. That you will be there to help our planet, people, and our animals. That you will be creative and inventive. That you will care about fellow human beings and that you will remember to put your phones down every once in a while. And listen...

Much love,

Saturday, May 6, 2017

The Psycho Drama of the Baby Boomer Generation

If you have found yourself here expecting this to be a glowing write up about how great the baby boomer generation is chances are you're not going to like what I am going to say here. (In fact there is a pinch of ad-hominem to this piece.) This is the way many Conservative Boomers see themselves. Certainly articles out there claim it. That they are the greatest generation, that they made this country what it is. "If you don't like it. Get out!"

No, I sure don't care for the attitudes of the Baby Boomer Conservatives of this country. I think they are full of themselves and I am sick to death of their whining, complaining habits of blaming everybody else. You think you know everything. You think you're better than everyone. Don't even get me started on how you blame Obama, Hillary, the gays, my generation, and the next for everything out there you don't like.

You're obnoxious and you're haters. You call people around you "snowflakes". I'm gonna tell you right now. You can go fuck right off. You're on your way out the door. This country is MY country, too. It doesn't belong to you, or me. You don't get to tell me to leave, mother fucker! Don't think cause you're older that you're wiser, and don't think I am going to respect you either just because you think I should.

You're the most self-centered, self-aggrandizing generation in our history! You care only about YOU, YOURS, and your back yard. You want this country YOUR way and you see the "good ole years" with rose colored glasses and by golly you have not evolved. You know what else? You can take your bible with you when you go. You haven't learned a damn thing from it. You talk about moral decay. I just see you as intellectually lazy. You talk about religious freedoms, yet you tell me I am going to Hell. You're such a hypocrite. That's right. Fuck off! I've had enough of you and here's your pacifier to go with it.  

Tuesday, April 25, 2017

A Must Read From A Science Teacher

This was a great post and later became an article. So I wanted to share it with you here in regards to transphobia. Frankly, I don't even like using that word. I much prefer to call it what it really is.

Grace Ann is a high school biology teacher in the Hudson Valley area of New York state. She's going viral after her response to a scientifically-inaccurate post about transgender people that acquired more than 30,000 shares and thousands of comments.

Ann was browsing Facebook recently when she saw a transphobic post that read the following:
"In a sexual species, females have two X chromosomes and males have an X and a Y, I'm not a bigot it's just science."

Being a science teacher, Ann had to reply and shoot down the post. Which she did in amazing style...

"First of all, in a sexual species, you can have females be XX and males be X (insects), you can have females be ZW and males be ZZ (birds), you can have females be females because they developed in a warm environment and males be males because they developed in a cool environment (reptiles)."

"You can have females be females because they lost a penis sword fighting contest (some flatworms), you can have males be males because they were born female, but changed sexes because the only male in their group died (parrotfish and clownfish)."

"You can have males look and act like females because they are trying to get close enough to actual females to mate with them (cuttlefish, bluegills, others), or you can be one of thousands of sexes (slime mold, some mushrooms.)"

"Oh, did you mean humans? Oh ok then. You can be male because you were born female, but you have 5-alphareductase deficiency and so you grew a penis at age 12. You can be female because you have an X and a Y chromosome but you are insensitive to androgens, and so you have a female body."

"You can be female because you have an X and a Y chromosome but your Y is missing the SRY gene, and so you have a female body. You can be male because you have two X chromosomes, but one of your X's HAS an SRY gene, and so you have a male body."

"You can be male because you have two X chromosomes- but also a Y. You can be female because you have only one X chromosome at all. And you can be male because you have two X chromosomes, but your heart and brain are male. And vice - effing - versa. Don't use science to justify your bigotry. The world is way too weird for that shit."

And there you have it, folks. I think I speak for myself, my partner, and a lot of people that you have to use science to justify the rights of human beings against the phobia currently being shown against the trans community.
Source: Article

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

If the God-Idea Was True

If the god-idea was true; god would be independently discoverable. Whether you looked for evidence of god in the arctic circle or central Africa or Tierra del Fuego, god would be the same. Real things are discoverable by anyone who looks for them. Fire is the same in Moscow as it is in Mesopotamia and Minnesota.

Gravity. It's global. You don't stand on the floor in New York and stand on the ceiling in London. Gravity is independently discoverable. Because it's real. Terminal velocity is the same in India and Tennessee.

A person who wonders, "Why does it rain?" can discover, by patient observation and a little math, the cycle of precipitation. And that cycle is the same anywhere you go on the Earth. It is independently discoverable.

Yet every single culture in every single era, planet-wide, has developed different ideas about god. What it wants. Where it came from. How to appease it or please it or offend it. All different names, characteristics, taboos, licenses. God is different everywhere you look because it is the product of creativity and imagination. It is not independently discoverable. Because it isn't real.

Article found via the Atheism Resource site authored by Troy Boyle. 

Thursday, April 6, 2017

Conservative Christian Hangups with Sex and Gender

I have for you today an article from John Pavlovitz. He is an eighteen year ministry veteran and author who is more progressive in his thought process than most Christians I tend to find online.

An article he wrote called Conservative Christian Men’s Weird Sexual Addiction caught my attention and I find myself agreeing with quite a bit of what he has to say here. That's not to say as an atheist that I agree with his personal beliefs about the bible or Jesus but I feel he is a better example of what Christian's could be if they really gave more thought to such topics.

He writes...

"Worse than this chronic fixation on sex, gender, and sexuality, is that Conservative Christianity has somehow deputized itself as qualified and entitled to police such things for the world, with the Bible (not Science, facts, or reason) as its sole authority on the matter."

Through arguments I have learned about men's conservative belief systems in that quite a few of them subscribe to not the biblical Jesus, but the Conservative Jesus. Who cares about helping your fellow man, who cares about making sure that his brother has enough to eat, or gets medical care because his Christian brother can't afford. Naw, fuck all that. Let's follow the Conservative Jesus who said "Fuck the poor, they're not blessed, unless they're paying their own way."

These types have an obsession with gender and gender reassignment surgery. A necessary medical procedure to help transsexuals get on with their lives no different from treatment that someone gets for depression or someone being treated for other medical issues. They want to ban people from getting this necessary treatment because they like to believe it's elective surgery.

Sexual repression is a state in which a person is prevented from expressing their own sexuality. It is often associated with feelings of guilt or shame being associated with sexual impulses. Certainly some religions will foster sexual repression. An example of such repression would be homosexuality or a demand for virginity. 

It is a reminder that what people repress will come out in possibly uglier ways further down the line. That, to me, is the problem with the Christian fundies and their fascination about things like sex. Repression of sexuality tends to lead people down a path of something twisted, perverted, or grotesque. Such as the scapegoating of others for what their freedom in embracing their sexual desires represents. 

Repression always forces a form of resentment where the moralizer preaches to the moralized simply because of the jealousy that the moralizer lacks in strength to embrace his/her own desires and thus seeks to scapegoat those who do.

Speaking on the subject... States where people vote for conservative candidates buy more porn than States in which people vote for progressive candidates. Wow! Who would have thought? 

As always feel free to leave a comment and have a great day.

Article by:
Pagan and Alannah

Thursday, March 30, 2017

Why Do Schools Teach Greek Mythology?

An interesting topic came up while I was researching a different theme for the blog and that is Greek Mythology. Why do they still teach Greek Mythology in junior high or high school? It's a good question. Is it relevant? What can students learn from it?

Scholars refer to and study myths as a way of shedding light on the religious and political institutions of ancient Greece and its civilization, and in understanding the nature of myth-making.

We studied it in my English class. I would say somewhat briefly when I was 14. For the record, that was some time ago for me. Found it rather interesting, actually. Although, it was something I had already read upon before we even got started on it in the classroom.

Back in the days when Yahoo was a popular search engine. Ok, may still be for some. I came across a reply from a poster named Maî who clarified in their answer why it was important to teach this subject.

Maî wrote....

There is more to education than just facts.

The myths are a part of history. They explain how an earlier culture perceived the universe.

The Greek and Roman myths were early religion, part of early civilization's way to explain things they did not understand.

The stories behind the myths are echoed frequently in contemporary culture.

The myths provide a foundation for contemporary culture.

For example, the movie My Fair Lady is based on George Bernard Shaw's book Pygmalian, which is based on the myth of the sculptor Pygmalian who fell in love with a statue named Galatea which he carved. You could even interpret Pretty Women this way

Star wars can be interpreted with Luke as the mythological Orpheus who had a power of communication with people and animals (thru music, i believe) while the modern treatment is thre force.

Han is the Odysseus figure (Odysseus was known for his rough appearance but is a great tactician and leader) Etc.

Art is full of mythology.

If you're a cultured, educated person, you should be able to recognize the myths when you come across their contemporary reinterpretations.

Philosophically, the myths can be enlightening. Think about Moirai, the three fates. What kind of a culture would hold these to be true?

Klotho combs the wool and spins the thread of life.

Atropos weaves the thread into the fabric of one's actions.

Lachesis determines the length of the thread and thus the period of one's life.

There are a plethora of articles and webpages dedicated to mythology on the internet which will go into greater detail than I can here. This post is more or less aimed at students.

For those interested in learning more I am going to include a link to Mensa For Kids: An Introduction to Greek Mythology and also the websites for your perusal. You should also check out Amazon or your local bookstore as there are a number of interesting books on the subject.

Friday, March 24, 2017

The Angry Quote Follower

In today's episode the following poster decided to let loose on a Lao Tzu quote or at least an interpretation of a quote from a really long time ago.

Lao Tzu was an ancient Chinese philosopher and writer. He is known as the reputed author of the Tao Te Ching, the founder of philosophical Taoism, as a deity in religious Taoism, and traditional Chinese religions according to the wikipedia.

Excellent! Sounds like a post for the blog here. I certainly don't claim to be an expert on Lao Tzu. But no matter. It was truly the whine that caught my attention that will be the focus. Normally, I hear from anti-choicers, the occasional right wing whack-a-doodle, or the religious telling me I am going to H. E. double toothpicks. :-)

I present to you the quote and what followed. It is, after all, Friday. We have to have a bit of fun here, now n' then.

Please take note that the quote above came  from a tumblr blog which they took offense to. Someone got offended on the internet? Oh noooess!

I would say Lao Tzu's quote is easy to understand in that it stands as a warning against being molded by the opinions of others on yourself and your life. My partner, Alannah, who is a BDSM devotee has only this to say, albeit she was saying it through the sardonic, mocking, wrathful laughter she is well known for in regards to individuals who are desperate to wear the Good Guy Badge.

No, please continue with your self-righteous moralizing whine. You're just making this truly worth my while. *chuckles*

Saturday, March 18, 2017

Victimless Crime

Blasphemy laws, the only laws created in case your "God" happens to be ontologicly unsound. I mean an omnipotent, omniscient being wouldn't get their knickers in a twist about a little thing like blasphemy, eh? Why would this god, who purportedly is all knowing, all wise actually get angered by his own creation calling his existence or even the so called "holy books" that he's purportedly dictated to our fellow humans being called into question? Surely a perfect "God" (at least as far as his worshipers state) wouldn't have that much of an ego to be displeased by a few of his own members of his own created species asking a few pertinent questions? For a God who the believers state is all powerful and all-knowing and all-seeing, that deific potency wouldn't be bothered with the odd person coming out with a small piece of "blasphemous verbiage". Or maybe it's got nothing at all to do with the actual God concept and more to do with people having their so called "faith" rocked a little bit inside their heads every time this God gets critiqued or mocked. If the faith of these believers was strong enough, and could withstand the bullets of skepticism against their belief system, they wouldn't give a damn about that nor would they posit the need for these blasphemy laws. I mean isn't a piece of legislation sufficient to suggest that this purportedly all-powerful God needs to be protected from the statements of a few non-believers or their critiques? Or maybe it's the fervent, foaming-at-the-mouth fundamentalists who need a safe space from the critiques of the other members of this God's creation.

I once joked to a religious person (a co-worker from years ago) during a discussion at lunch, that maybe we should have blasphemy laws for unicorns, dragons, ghosts, vampires etc because people believe in those too, so shouldn't these figures who are believed in by some, need some protection from the skeptics like myself? She laughed and said "That would be silly and a waste of time", but her laughter rapidly dissipated when I explained to her that the God concept had no more evidence than that of unicorns, vampires or dragons. So if we're gonna bring in laws to protect this God concept why not all the others that are believed in as well? She got really pissed off when I suggested these so called blasphemy laws should extend to all God/Goddess concepts which meant she couldn't come out with her usual bullshit (which she was rather happy to spout off on) about worshiping "false gods" and how these other gods were "demons and Satan in disguise". It was a pity she didn't get the fact that so called "blasphemy laws" either had to apply to all  religions and not just hers and that these stupid laws are a bad idea for everyone, believer and non-believer alike. But isn't that the main problem with the religious, that those who support blasphemy laws really only wish for it to apply to their concept of God and not that of others?

Saturday, March 4, 2017

Existence and Meaning

There is no inherent existential meaning in nature or the cosmos, we have to create or supply our own meaning and that varies from individual to individual and can take a myriad of forms. There probably are no God or Goddesses, no savior coming down from the skies to save our backsides from an over-reliance on such concepts. We're alone and we cannot afford to leave our planet in the hands of some concept that we have come to rely on like little children, believing that this deific concept will haul our backsides out of the fire or take care of us. It's time to grow up and accept that hard, brutal responsibility that has fallen on our human, all too human shoulders. We have this planet, we need to look after it because it's our responsibility. This is not against people's rights to believe in such a deity, far from it I will highly defend the right to believe in whatever they will, but when I see comments from various overly-reliant people (most of them fundamental or right-wing Christians) that such things as global warming don't exist or that if it does exist, it shouldn't worry us because "God would never allow us to be destroyed" seems completely unrealistic in a cognitive dissonance vein and even a tad stupendously irresponsible. This planet and what we create meaning wise is up to us, and it's a responsibility we cannot escape from. That does not equate to a lack of joy or some pessimistic thing. Far from it, there are a multitude of reasons why people find joy in an otherwise meaningless existence. For some it may be family and friends, for others art, music et al, there is joy and contentment to be found, but we must seek that within and without ourselves in what we ourselves find meaningful and the great thing about that, it varies and is multitudinous.

My own two cents and nothing more.

Photo from Disturbing Quotes

Thursday, February 9, 2017

Video Urges Americans to 'Celebrate the Diversity That Makes America, America'

To those that call yourselves Patriots. Would you still call yourself that after viewing this video? Perhaps it gives you a different perspective of what being a Patriot is really about.

To love America is to love all Americans. John Cena takes a break between dropping body slams to drop some truth – that patriotism is more than pride of country, it’s love beyond labels.

While the vast majority of Americans consider themselves unprejudiced, many of us unintentionally make snap judgments about people based on what we see - whether it’s race, age, gender, religion, sexuality, or disability. The Love Has No Labels campaign challenges us to open our eyes to our implicit, or unconscious bias and work to stop it in ourselves, our families, our friends, and our colleagues. Rethink your bias at

Friday, January 27, 2017

How Geology Disproves Noah's Flood

This is part of a series of videos explaining how different fields of study refute the Noachian deluge. This second episode was mostly composed by paleoclimatologist, Hal Hackett.

L. Aron Nelson known professionally as Aron Ra, is the president of the Atheist Alliance of America, the host of the Ra-Men Podcast, a public speaker, video producer, blogger, and vlogger. He is also the former Texas state-director of the American Atheists. Aron Ra is a critic of creationism, and promotes the teaching of science in Texas schools.

Youtube and Wikipedia

Friday, January 20, 2017

Do Crystals Have Healing Powers?

Crystal healing is a pseudo-scientific alternative medicine technique that employs stones and crystals. Adherents of the technique claim that these have healing powers, although there is no scientific basis for this claim.

Users of this technique believe that crystals act as conduits for healing by allowing positive or healing energy to flow into the body and negative, disease-causing energy flows out. They are often used and associated with spell work in Wiccan beliefs and other religious movements.

Healing crystals remain popular in new age circles, spas, and online forums. No scientific study has shown that crystals and gems can be differentiated by chemical composition or color to treat conditions or disease. What some individuals may experience is a placebo effect. Placebo effects are effects due to the patient's belief in that treatment, rather than a direct result of the treatment itself.

As you may guess, most "healers" get their certification from the internet through "natural medicine" courses. What I have personally experienced is these individuals actually believe they have the power to heal people through stones. One woman got so mad at me for telling her the truth about crystals that we could no longer be friends. But no amount of wishful thinking will make crystals heal someone. 

As a suggestion for the crystal lovers and collectors out there you may want to look into gemology which is the science dealing with natural and artificial gemstone materials. If healing is something such individuals really want to do get into nursing school to see how the human body actually works and learn about treatments that actually help. Most of the time such persons will not because they cling to these outdated, ancient, philosophies.

Crystals can be a part of a collection to learn about different types or worn as jewelry and are very pretty.  Just don't believe they have any metaphysical healing properties contained in them.

Wednesday, January 18, 2017

Find Your Voice and Use It

Each day I come online something is happening in the Trump camp that makes me feel we can no longer live the way we once did. Things feel very different since the election and many people are affected in a way I have not seen before. Myself included.

More Americans are becoming depressed by the circumstances and may be wondering what they can do. What we have to do. We can no longer sit idle and hope and/or pray he's impeached. We have to be vocal. I don't think online petitions are enough to get us out of this mess.

Our freedoms are eroding, separation of church and state is at risk, women's health and reproductive health care options are in danger, disabled persons, the elderly, the LGBT, ObamaCare, the list goes on. Trump is not someone who is for the people. He is for himself and we have to remind those in Congress that they are supposed to be working for the people, not for their own religious agendas.

I encourage you to speak up and make your voice be heard. Call your senators. Phone number and tips for doing so can be found on this page below.

If you have further ideas which may be helpful please leave a comment on the blog. Thanks.

Tuesday, January 3, 2017

Coming Out of the Atheist Closet

I thought about what I wanted to write about today. Often topics come up through various conversations and I was reminded about coming out of the closet as an atheist. Although there is more protection for atheists and a growing community out there in the United States. Sometimes coming out does have its consequences, even here. In some areas of the world atheism is readily accepted while in other countries it is considered a crime.

According to Pew Research in June of 2016 the share of Americans who identify as atheists has roughly doubled in the past several years. One thing that could be said is that atheism and non-belief continues to grow and with each year more people are relying on Science. With the number of elderly religious baby boomers beginning to decline a new generation is more inclined to list themselves as atheist, non-believer, agnostic, or nothing in particular.

Just a few years ago I was a member of a site that claimed they were open to all people and paths. But the owner of that site did not like atheists or skeptics and went to lengths to get our group removed. Family can be problematic for atheists as well. Religious parents can make things pretty difficult for their children or adult children. Screaming and carrying on demanding they believe in God (or else). But if there are no changes, these old ideas persist and continue.

We have a Republican president-elect and those on board that want to take the world back to another era. Trump wants to "protect Christianity" and allow businesses to discriminate based on "sincerely held" religious beliefs. By allowing people to discriminate you set yourself up to be discriminated against.

If you can safely come out of the closet. Then normalization of non-belief in a god or deity is essential to making our world a better place as religion only serves to divide us. Religion around the world is in decline. Norway now has more people who do not believe in God than do - with 39 per cent of atheists versus 37 per cent of believers.

The six most atheist countries in the world not including Norway are China, Japan, Czech Republic, France, Australia, and Iceland.

Feel free to share your coming out the closet experiences in the comments area.

Saturday, December 31, 2016

Welcome 2017

Mark Thompson Art

Life is more about misery and suffering than anything else. Why else are people constantly looking for happiness and seeking out spirituality or imaginary gods to save them? Seeking drugs, alcohol, and anything to forget. Who in their right mind would choose to be born?

No, I won't be celebrating the New Year. It hardly seems appropriate with what lies ahead. The nightmare that faces women and reproductive healthcare. The GOP's continued war on abortion and funerals for fetuses campaign. Even conservative women trying to normalize sexual assault. 

Republicans have waged war on the sciences and are committed to remain ignorant about facts on climate change and health. 

The GOP continues its war on the poor and are in essence the 'Robin Hood in Reverse'. Give to the rich and punish the poor seems to be their motto. 

The GOP triumph was a heavy blow to the Human Rights Campaign and other gay-rights organizations which had worked vigorously on behalf of Hillary Clinton. The GOP's stance on the LGBT community is a huge step backwards in time.

The GOP has had a long standing war on schools and education.

Older Americans desperate to take the world back to another era and successful in doing so because hey, they actually voted. Those of you that did not vote and had the opportunity, there were a lot of you. Your vote could have made a difference. This race was that close! 

Oh but religion! Get on your knees. They want to destroy the separation between church and state. They want kids to believe God created the world. They want the bible back in schools. They want to keep the public stupid for their own benefit. 

One can only imagine the grand schemes in the minds of these men coming together. Narcissists and psychopaths unite! 

"It's all true. The boogeyman is real and you found him."

Thursday, December 29, 2016

The Stars Don't Give a Shit About You

From the title you can bet your booty this article is about Astrology and why it's bullshit. Yet, it's one of the most recognized pseudosciences. Why do people become so absorbed in these primitive beliefs?

Astrology is defined as the study of the movements and relative positions of celestial bodies interpreted as having an influence on human affairs and the natural world. It's been dated to the 2nd Millennium BCE. With the scientific revolution it thus was challenged on theoretical and experimental ground and found to have no validity. It has since been considered a pseudoscience or purely for entertainment purposes.

With that said many people still partake in this nonsense yet it's been debunked so many times you may wonder why I chose to do an article on it. That people still choose to research this topic and waste their precious time on something that has no merit is precisely why. To hopefully educate and get individuals thinking a little more critically about these topics. While hopefully keeping folks from getting scammed. Astrology is big business for those who want to throw away their cash.

Your horoscope is much like a fortune cookie. Astrologers make it as vague as possible so that it could be applied to almost anyone. It's based on generalizations.

The burden of proof is on those who claim it to be true. Astrologers cannot provide evidence for the actual mechanism at work. Researchers have studied it for decades and its failed again and again. Ask an astrologer to demonstrate how it works and how you can see its results and you've already won.

A person who begins following astrology on a daily basis ends up creating a 'self fulfilling prophecy' which only helps cement an idea into the practicing mind. Sounds familiar doesn't it? If not, it should. Because that is how religions work and why there are so many out there.

Another problem with the belief in astrology is the lack of self-responsibility it can bring. While it may be harmless for some to check their star signs in the local paper for amusement, others however take it to the point where they are unwilling to make life decisions or place responsibility on their own shoulders for the actions they commit in life without checking with their astrologer first.

It's all too easy to blame the retrograde in Mercury for how poorly one's existence is at a certain point. Rather than to be self-aware of one's situation and honest about any choices one has made which may have been a contributing factor to life and its problems. Instead of giving total control over our existence, astrology can hamper and instill fear with our choices, and allowing us to blame bad moves on how the stars were placed at a certain period. It's the perfect tool for running away from the harshness of self-responsibility and a soothing balm of delusion to those things we did and cannot accept.

Astrology should never be confused with Astronomy. While the stars and planets may seem mysterious, they should never rule your life.

Ron Mossler uses his class for an Astrology experiment on Penn & Teller's Bullshit!

Authored by:
Pagan & Alannah

Tuesday, December 27, 2016

Duly Noted

Powerful and moving speech from Rep. Ruben Gallego from the House floor telling the truth about Donald J. Trump.

In spite of being interrupted several times Rep. Ruben Gallego keeps on going. I am so impressed by this man for speaking out on the floor. Thank you!

Tuesday, December 20, 2016

New Law Giving Protection To Atheists

With overwhelming bipartisan support Congress has passed a landmark religious freedom bill, HR 1150, the Frank R. Wolf International Religious Freedom Act. The law was introduced by Congressman Chris Smith, a well-known defender of human rights, and named in honor of longtime religious freedom champion, retired Congressman Frank Wolf.

The new law upgrades the 1998 International Religious Freedom Act, and offers explicit protection to atheists.

The freedom of thought, conscience, and religion is understood to protect theistic and non-theistic beliefs as well as the right not to profess or practice any religion.

The Act also condemns “specific targeting of non-theists, humanists, and atheists because of their beliefs” and attempts to forcibly compel “non-believers or non-theists to recant their beliefs or to convert.”

Sunday, December 18, 2016

Greetings for the Season

Season's Greetings to those we hold dear, from our home to yours, whether far or near. Wishing all our readers the best this holiday season.

Pagan & Alannah

Friday, December 9, 2016

Gender and Religion

Statue of Hermaphrodite – Louvre

"This is a subject of critical importance to the modern study of religion in that it concerns both biological sexuality and cultural gender. Serious gender scholarship in the field of religion has tended to focus upon religious constructions of sexuality that transcend the polar circles of male and female, in order to investigate the possibilities of other sexualities (for instance, hermaphrodites) offered in various religions.

The so-called non-Western religions are not necessarily open to more liberal constructions of gender than are the great monotheisms (Judaism, Christianity, and Islam); some of them are simply open to different constructions. Myths of androgyny—of creatures, human or divine, who are half female, half male—and of transsexuality—the transforming of a person of one biological sex into one of the other sex— sometimes support and sometimes deconstruct their own cultures’ beliefs concerning gender. Myths of the origin of sexual differentiation generally affirm social boundaries; myths of transsexuality may subvert them, but do not always do so.

Gender is relatively easily sloughed off in some texts in which a male is entirely transformed into a female, with a female mentality and memory (aspects of cultural gender rather than sexuality); for instance, King Ila, the founder of the Hindu lunar dynasty, forgets everything about his male existence when he is magically transformed into a female who gives birth to the heir to the throne. Yet other texts seem to reflect a view of gender as astonishingly durable: the male merely assumes the outer form of the female, retaining his male essence, his male memory and mentality; thus the Hindu god Vishnu merely takes on the form of the enchantress Mohini to seduce the demons and steal back the elixir of immortality. The sexual transformation of the body is distinct from the transformation of the mind, memory, and personality; even when physical sexuality changes, the gender of the mind may remain unchanged.

Some religions argue that gender is itself a lie, since it positions as natural and inevitable what is primarily cultural, learned, and transformable; but it is also true, since like any myth it is deeply embedded in our linguistic and narrative assumptions, and thus a powerfully compelling force that cannot be ignored."

Encyclopædia Britannica

— with Alexander Madrigal via Facebook.